Who taught you?
A few months ago, I came across a post on Instagram that really resonated with me and made me think about my own life experiences. The post stated “my son is left-handed. My nanny keeps trying to correct him; “Don’t […]
What Does Success Look Like To You?
A few weeks ago, I had given my younger daughter the task of learning some of her time tables that she had been struggling with. She was fine remembering them in order, but just seemed to struggle with remembering them
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CAN I CALL YOU LATER?
This week, I have been reflecting a lot on the impact of loss and how we tend to celebrate our relationships with loved ones more when they are gone than when they are alive. To illustrate this, I have written
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Power of Positive Affirmation
Think of how you feel when you get compliments. “You are beautiful; You light up a room with that smile; you are so confident; You are kind; And the best one, “You are fearfully and wonderfully made” (God’s affirmation to
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What are you letting into that Mind of yours?
So this week is Mental Health Awareness Week and the theme is nature. Personally, I am not big on the outdoors, I prefer to stay home, under the covers and that really makes me happy. However, the few times (especially
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Cut from the same cloth, different designs
As a parent, nurturing our children to be the best version of themselves is something I believe we should strive for. But when you have more than one child, you very quickly find that the personalities of our children are
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PS: I love you but I need a minute
Recently I noticed I had become very irritable. I didn’t feel like talking to anyone or have the motivation to complete pending tasks, but one thing I couldn’t take time off from was being a parent. I had to continue
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Hiking up a mountain and the lessons learnt
Have you ever found yourself embarking on something you know very little about or what the end result would be? Sometimes, it may even feel like a spur-of-the-moment decision that you haven’t given too much thought to. This was me
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Celebrating Womanhood and Motherhood; Intersections and Uniqueness
The theme of this year’s international women’s day is “choose to challenge gender bias and inequality” with the aim of creating an inclusive world where women can exist without fear of judgement and stereotypical beliefs of what “Womanhood” should be.
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“Failing is not the opposite of success, it is a part of the success story.”
Growing up, I remember having conversations with my peers where we all had something in common; all our parents came top of their class in school. Back then, we never really thought to question this until much later when it
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Conversation vs Confrontation; Check your responses!!
I am sure that we can all agree that effective communication is a key element of any relationship; it can either foster or break the relationship. This is particularly true in the way that we communicate with our children where
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“I am sorry child, I was wrong!”
Saying the words, “I am sorry” to anyone is often an acknowledgement that we have done something wrong which isn’t always easy because it requires you to be vulnerable admitting that you were wrong; how much more, to a child.
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Unlearning the Myths of Gender Stereotyping in Parenting
This week, I want to explore the importance of partnership parenting and the need to unlearn gender-stereotyped parenting in the home. When I had my first daughter, my parents came over to stay with us from Nigeria to fulfil the
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Conversation with my younger self
It was my birthday this week and it is always a time of reflection for me. It is important for me to take stock of the things that have been good, as well as those that haven’t, and the lessons I have
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Why I should be talking to my children about Racism!
A few weeks ago, my younger daughter Toni, came home and very casually told us about an incident that occurred in school with a girl she occasionally played with. She explained that the girl had told her she didn’t want
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Lockdown taught me to…
This post is an appreciation to teachers and parents who are doing the most in this lockdown to keep children regulated in such incredibly difficult and unprecedented times. At the start of 2020, who would’ve thought that we would be
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Spelling out the Rules: Literally!!!
Parenting is no doubt one of the best gifts, but it can also present with its own challenges especially when it comes to setting boundaries and laying down the rules at home. Children need boundaries because it keeps them safe
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What are you grateful for?
A happy new year and welcome to 2021! What a year we just had, if you are reading this, I am thankful that you made it as no one anticipated the whirlwind that we survived in the form of COVID-19.
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